Is It wrong to want be in the swinger lifestyle after marriage?
We were expolering prior to the wedding. We are both involved and honest about it. Though it is a little 1 sided favoring him.
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February 5th, 2010 at 1:45 pm
Wrong for us, but if you both agree, then I guess not.
February 5th, 2010 at 2:03 pm
Hey, I wouldn’t do it. But everyone wants/haves a different lifestyle… If it’s 1 sided and its just favoring him and you don’t feel too comfortable with it, then I advise you not to do it, cause you’re not going to be happy in the end..
February 5th, 2010 at 2:57 pm
Absolutely wrong.
February 5th, 2010 at 3:05 pm
Well you can make it 2 sided without it favoring anyone.
There’s nothing wrong with being in the swinger lifestyle provided that the sex is safe and in fact you are both doing this for entertainment purposes, rather than looking for more love interests.
Swingers who are adapted to the lifestyle enjoy swinging as a couple. It brings variety in. Some make it a regular thing, others simply do this as an occasional thing to spice things up or make things interesting.
Its up to you as a couple. If your husband doesn’t need sex with other women, then it would seem the two of you could lay low for awhile and focus on your own sexual relationship.
Personally, as man, I prefer to spend more time with the woman I love both in and out of bed, but its not been beyond my relationships in the past to occasionally swing with my woman together for kicks. Its sort of an acquired taste but not an indulgence I preferred on a regular basis either.
February 5th, 2010 at 3:53 pm
Kind of amoral and disgusting.
February 5th, 2010 at 4:32 pm
If both of you are wanting it, do it. be honest & be safe.
February 5th, 2010 at 5:32 pm
Doesn’t anyone get jealous anymore? I’ll never get this.
February 5th, 2010 at 5:47 pm
IMO YES it is. When you marry – you FORSAKE all others – you are faithful to each other and only desire to be with that one person. Anything else will kill the marriage evenutally. If you cannot take your marriage vows SERIOUSLY and be faithful and satisfyed with your spouse only, then please don’t even bother to “marry” – that’s making a mockery of what marriage is suppsed to be.
February 5th, 2010 at 6:07 pm
Not if that is the lifestyle that both of you want.
February 5th, 2010 at 6:42 pm
so i take it you don’t respect each other.
February 5th, 2010 at 7:13 pm
Yes
February 5th, 2010 at 8:10 pm
In short… I would say “No”. As long as you both are interested in it… Then go for it.. Who are we to judge you?
February 5th, 2010 at 9:01 pm
If you are in it for fun and excitement, and both of you are in it(not just one, with the other being dragged along), then yeah sure. My wife and I have been married for 14 years, and swinging for 12 years, so it can work out if neither of you are jealous, and are in it for the right reasons.
Too often, newbie couples will try out the lifestyle, with the guy expecting to walk into a wild orgy, and having sex immediately, and the wife apprehensive. Actually what happens a lot is the wife will find out that the people in the lifestyle are really fun. laid back, non-pressure people to be around, and the recreational sex is great(a lot of swinger males know how to have sex, because they are around it a lot.) And the guy finds out that it is not a all out orgy, with model type women drooling to have all kinds of wild sex of his fantasies with him (at least in the beginning) and the women are mostly average.)
After-wards, the male of the couple gets frustrated, and doesn’t want to do it, yet the formerly apprehensive wife wants to continue.
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