What Would You Do If You Found Out Your New Husband Signed You Up for A Swingers Club?
Ladies, what would you do if you found that only six weeks after being married to a man more than twice your age that he signed both of you on a website swingers club because he wanted some 2 Girls on a Guy action? This happened to someone I know. They fought, she forgave, he removed the webcast. How do you think he is serious about marriage? Do you wait a while and try again and see if it is more readily?
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June 9th, 2010 at 5:32 am
I say, DUMP HIS AS*
June 9th, 2010 at 5:44 am
I would find out exactly how serious he was about it….because if he continued to pursue it for me that would be a deal-breaker.
Better to find out after only 6 weeks instead of 6 years.
June 9th, 2010 at 5:49 am
I think he will try it again. I wouldve beaten the crap outta him i dont go that way. If my husband wants to fantasize he can do it but not experience it.
June 9th, 2010 at 6:01 am
I would be pretty pissed.
June 9th, 2010 at 6:30 am
highly imaginative and active….
try it if sportin if not decline….thats ome way of expoliitng sex ….he’s just being frank and adventurous…
June 9th, 2010 at 7:10 am
He probably only married her to get into the club. Bait and switch tactic. She really didn’t know him obviously. They shouldn’t stay together.
June 9th, 2010 at 7:52 am
I do not think he is serious @ all. Unless it was discussed that they would have an open marriage. If he did not have this discussion with her then he has alot of explaining to do. It was not nice of him to do that to her.
June 9th, 2010 at 8:49 am
Get an anollment from the freak and stay far away from him.
June 9th, 2010 at 9:30 am
I’d dump his sorry butt.
June 9th, 2010 at 9:37 am
i would say she will have to face this again in the future if he did it so soon after marriage to her, he is evidently only wanting a wife to help fulfill his fantasies
June 9th, 2010 at 10:02 am
i would get my proof and head right to my lawyers office.zero tolerace for a scumbag like that.
June 9th, 2010 at 10:42 am
i would f*ck him up. that is something you talk about together, not something to do behind their back
June 9th, 2010 at 11:37 am
Perhaps he was afraid to approach her directly with this idea, but now that he knows how she feels about it, he won’t do so again. He could have ‘just been trying’.
Only time will tell if he was serious or if it was a whim. The fact he is so much older may be a sign of that old ‘mid-life crisis’ and him wanting to do something he only fantasized about. Let the two of them work it out.
June 9th, 2010 at 11:49 am
Red Flag! Hell no to post it thinking your OK with this yeah the guy is a jerk and she will only get hurt in the end.
June 9th, 2010 at 12:00 pm
darn
thats not good
June 9th, 2010 at 12:32 pm
You need to talk to him about it, and the way it makes you feel. You should let him know exactly what you think and let him tell you his side of the story. YOU rather do that now while its still time….
June 9th, 2010 at 1:05 pm
im not one to say divorce, but the word annulment does come to mind!
June 9th, 2010 at 1:16 pm
He should have been more open with her about his “swinging” lifestyle before they married. Guess she wouldn’t have married him if she had known.
Why is she still with him? What was he planning on doing when he got a reply? Arranging a “surprise” rendezvous for her? (“Gee honey, I thought you’d like it”).
The guy is a jerk. Whether she forgives him or not, it is what he wants. If he’s prepared to advertise himself and her (without her consent) on the internet, he’s prepared to find a way of getting his threesome in the future, whether she’s involved or not.
June 9th, 2010 at 1:21 pm
did she ask him why did he do something like that and what in the heck he was thinking about? Why would he feel that his wife is into this kind of behavior? He should ask her that way before he ask her to marry him. I don’t know about people when they get married. Seem to me another door to their world open up and trouble just walk right out and introduce itself.
June 9th, 2010 at 2:18 pm
why in the world marry someone twice her age?!!!!
June 9th, 2010 at 2:40 pm
I `d explain to him how hard it would be to be divorced…..I`d also tell him how hard divorced men have it……swinger`s clubs, YUCK!!
June 9th, 2010 at 2:43 pm
does she swing maybe she just didnt want to do the party just wants to try it with anoth woman an doesnt want it to be public but he should ask first
June 9th, 2010 at 3:21 pm
I have to agree with eveyone else on this one, get rid of him, he was very lucky to get someone a lot younger then him to begin with, not many younger women will screw someone that much older then them, let a lone marry them,
June 9th, 2010 at 4:09 pm
Sounds like there’s a strong need for communication… Evidently he had those desires, and now that they’re public, they need to talk. It might be possible that marriage was a mistake. But since they’re already married, one would think they should be able to talk. If not, they have no hope for a future.
June 9th, 2010 at 4:48 pm
I think he is serious about the marriage, but also serious about a FMF threesome. Obviously, they need a safer relationship environment where expressing such things is okay. He obviously feels he can’t talk to her about his fantasies without her becoming defensive and hurt or he wouldn’t be doing this behind her back.
Remember, it takes two to tango. Everything is a cause and effect. He’s doing this because he can’t safely talk to her about it and thus she’s getting angry because he’s doing this behind her back because he doesn’t feel safe talking to her about it. See how that’s a vicious cycle? Only more open and honest communication will help.